I had DD2 2 and a bit weeks ago. I don't live near my parents but my oldest brother (of two) lives 50 miles away, an easy motorway trip, does not work 9 to 5, and has not yet been to visit.
He called last week, was so disengaged in the 'conversation' that I actually had to say 'hello?' to check he was still there. Then a few days later he called and invited us to make the trip to their house for lunch. Whilst I always appreciate the offer of lunch is it simply not done to expect the people with the newborn who are breastfeeding and/or sleep deprived to make the trip?? My sister in law who doesn't drive professes to be dying to see my DD. She said she'd try and organise with my brother to come and see me yesterday or today. It's today. I have emailed and left a mobile message to see if they are coming but no one has replied.
My other brother has a better excuse living 200 miles away but has not called to ask how I am, or how she is, just sent a text when we announced her name.
I'm gutted for my daughter that my close family don't seem to give a crap about her arrival!
I'm seriously considering cutting myself off from them - not in a 'never speaking to them again' sort of way but no longer making any effort since it is never reciprocated. I just can't deal with these negative thoughts that stem from these interactions any more.
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AIBU to expect some interest at all in my newborn DD from my own brothers???
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NotAnOnlyChild · 22/10/2009 09:49
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