Why why WHY god WHY!
I make all the meals in the week, and do all the shopping as I work from home and it's easier. His jobs are to cook on weekends (I do it sometimes too depending on how busy we both are). But he makes such a mess and leaves it all until Sunday to clean. The result is that I can't go into the kitchen over the weekend as I know it's going to be a mess and I will want to throttle him.
I do have some sort of OCD I'm sure, I don't expect him to clean it spotlessly but seriously, there are hundreds of dity plates, cups and bowls (we have a dishwasher why not out them in there?!) and they aren't stacked neatly but spread over every possible surface!
We just had a tesco home delivery arrive which I had to put away navigating his mess which had stressed me out no end. So I asked him why can't he clean as he goes, does he like me having to nag him, etc and he just ignores me which is even more infuriating!
How can I make him understand that it drives me INSANe and I really really feel like smashing a plate against the wall every time he does it!
ARGHHHHHHHHH
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to want to poke my DP in the eye!?
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navyeyelasH · 18/10/2009 13:53
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