Unfortunately my dp has been out of work for 18 mths since we relocated to be closer to family. Prior to this he had a reasonably well paid job in an industrial environment. The area we have moved to does not have such high employemnt as a number of places have shut down and it is not a city like where we were previously. Also, in my dp's last job he was involved in an explosion where a colleague was badly burned and the compensation clain is still ongoing which prevents him finding work in the same field. He has however done a few college courses and training programmes and applied for jobs, which so far has come to nothing. I don't work atm as we have 2 small children.
I had got the impression that some of my family think dp is 'lazy' and 'useless' but until now have ignored it. Bear in mind i have never complained about dp as I know he is doing his best. Recently I received a few phonecalls from my dad and girlfriend where she was calling dp 'useless' and saying he sponges off of me and doesn't help out with the kids etc etc. She has hardly met him so must have got this so called 'info' from my dad! It doesn't matter what I say, my dad and other members of his family have got this impression. I feel really bad for dp as he trys his best with them and I wouldn't want to tell him what they thought as it would upset him but I think he has an idea anyway. I put the phone down abruptly and then text my dad's gf to say it's a bit hypocritical of my dad to say anything since he is an alcoholic who hasn't worked for 20 yrs and who never supported me and my mum! I'm still fuming now and don't want to talk to any of them.
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Alishanty · 06/10/2009 15:02
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