My ds was born 3 months ago and surprised us all by coming out extremly pale with straight red hair, despite having a black father.
I myself am VERY pale, so found it more amusing than shocking as I know how funny genetics can be.
But lately my partner has said that while he loves our ds he is finding it hard as he cannot see himself, or any of his family in ds.
He has even mentioned a paternity test, and while I know in his heart he knows how ridiculous this is, he says sometimes he can't digest what he sees before his eyes.
Has anyone else had similar experiences?.... will our ds darken, or is it really possible that a mixed race baby can stay this white? Even his little ears have a pinkish hue, and his eyelids are almost see through!
Personally I would never have thought it an issue, but can see why my partner may struggle a little with it, people already have given us a few funny looks when I introduce him as ds's father
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angelz · 05/10/2009 14:28
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