Whenever I leave DS with my mother he tends to cry and get upset (he is 1.5 years), and I can see that this really upsets her alot. For some reason he has not really clicked with them....he gets on very well with the rest of the family (DH) side, and I think maybe this is cos they are more relaxed with him. Anyway this upsets me, so I suggested she have him overnight. Friends have advised me to bite the bullet on this, as sooner or later he needs to spend time with them and he needs to get used to them. In parallel to this they often have his 2 cousins (similar age) overnight. The eldest grandchild is very familiar with them since birth and even tho his sibling is not the best sleeper she seems to be OK as her brother is there. I work 5 days and have NO HELP with baby from mother, so I am a bit reesentful that one side of the family can leave babies for nights and swan off, anyway my Mum said NO as she said that she does not think DS is "ready". Basically I think she is scared he will will cry hysterically and she wont get any sleep. The last thing I want to do is upset DS or my Mum, but when will he be ready? I want to be reasonable here, so how can I foster a better relationship. I am also very angry and resentful that one side can fxxxk off for baby free mini breaks and I cant, but I need to be a biggger person on this! any advice??
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that mother wont have mine overnight but will have his cousins???
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porcamiseria · 30/09/2009 09:14
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