Situation is very very difficult.
Last sunday he was meant to have DD. He came to the door shouting and accusing me of all sorts ( of which i hadnt done) i refused to let DD go with him being like that. Told him so and tried to shut the door. He stuck his foot in the door so i couldnt shut it. DD was crying and has been talking about it, and daddy being naughty and that he mustnt do it all week.
Horrible
Then i ended up in hospital, brought on an attack from the stress of it all. The very min i get out he calls and starts a HUGE arguement again. Saying he going to stop giving money, going to take DD away from me. All rubbish, but still not nice.
Hes just picked her up this morning. We live on a busy ( ish) road, and some cars well exceed the speed limit. He grabbed her car seat and the kite i got out for him and walked across the road. DD ran ahead. he said to her can you see cars, she said no and just carried on walking. ( shes 3)
I shouted, grab her hand and stop her. But he shouted to me to fuck off, he was carrying stuff and to sod off. All in front of DD.
He came back to my house when he had got DD in the car and told me again to fuck off, yes she had run off but she was ok.
He should have got the stuff then come back for her. AIBU to expect him to manage with her better and now im really worried if she will be safe with him.
Should i mention it to the solicitor on tuesday or am i just BU?
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makeitbetter · 19/07/2009 10:24
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