Ok, I know I am being very silly but I can't help feeling a bit hurt by this. I went back to my hometown a few weeks ago (100 + miles away from where I currently live) and helped with the preparations for one of my best friends DS's 4th birthday which was organised for one of the days I was there. BF is really good friends with a gay couple who were also there though I don't know them too well. While I was there I made a huge effort with one of the mens mother's who was also visting from her hometown and didn't know many people either, and took lots of photos of the party with the intention of giving them to my friend who doesn't have a camera at the moment. I did mention to one of these men that perhaps I could put them on FB as a private album so he could get my friend to see them and choose the ones she wanted. He saus he doesn't get on FB very often but did give me his surname and its unusual spelling so I could find him
Anyway fast forward to when I get home and I send friend requests to both of them so I could get my friend to choose the pics she wants and they both decline. One of them has over 350 friends on his friends list and can't possibly know them all, yet still declines mine when he knows my motivation to send the request was to help our mutual friend who is extremely skint at the moment and cannot afford extras such as photos (she had to sacrifice so much just to afford the party in the first place). To add insult to injury he is friends with another mutual friend whom he makes clear he cannot stand.
I know I am being ridiculous and stupid but I feel really hurt by the whole thing. I don't even know why because I rarely see this couple and I have had much much worse happen to me. Now please feel free to kick my arse
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