I was just pondering whether to bake somethng for the teachers this year or buy some wine when another mum marched up to me in the playground yesterday and said, 'Hello Spiderboy's mum. We're organising a collection for the teachers so that they don't get a load of rubbish Everyone's giving £10'.
Of course at the time I said, 'Yes OK. I haven't brought money today but will bring it tomorrow.'
I've had rising irritation ever since. I have four children and we're pretty hard up. We're not having a family holiday this year (unless you count visiting DH's family in Birmingham) and given that I have 4 children, all of whom have teachers to buy presents for, I really wasn't planning to fork out this much.
However, as I was asked in public and told 'everyone is giving £10' I felt too embarrassed to say 'no thank you'.
Would it be unreasonable of me to change my mind and tell her today I'm making my own arrangements?
Now I regret it not just because of the money but because of the public way I was asked. I feel pressurised. Last time I was this short of money I baked them all a loaf of bread and it went down really well.
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To resent being pressurised into forking out £10 for a present for the teachers?
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Spidermama · 17/07/2009 08:27
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