Hi,
My son is 20 months old and he has just been "discovered" by a few other children (5-7 year olds) on his street who play out (we live in a cul-de-sac so this is not too dangerous) in the afternoons and evenings. They want him to play out with them which he loves doing and I am quite happy for him to do (under parental supervision obviously!), HOWEVER:
One little girl in particular rings our door bell ALL THE TIME especially when we are trying to get him to bed or when it's just not convenient (obviously I have to go out with him so it's not always possible). He is too little to understand why we can't let him go out and for the past couple of weeks bed time has been really difficult as there's lots of screaming because he hears the doorbell and wants to to go out. We've tried ignoring the doorbell but she will stand there and ring it constantly until someone goes down.
Also, as the other children are a lot older they climb walls, run across the road etc which I can't let my son do which leads to more tantrums and he becomes difficult (eg. running away from me over the road because the other children are crossing on their own).
I'n guessing the obvious thing to do is ask her parents not to let her call after 6pm (they're polish and not sure how much English they understand) but she is out on her own a lot and I'm not sure they always know where she is or what she's doing.
Should this bother me??!!
Any ideas please!!!!!
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roadybar · 05/07/2009 19:49
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