The inlaws live around 2.5 hours away from us, and as DH has a flat there which he now rents out, we need to go down for the weekend as his tenant is moving out, place needs a good scrub etc.
DD is 21 months old and I am 36 weeks pg with DC2.
We all go down together, and it is nice, I get a rest, fed, watered etc, and DD sees grandparents. But DH will be cleaning etc all day, so it's just me and the GPs all weekend. We speak different languages, so I can't even chit-chat to pass time. I can't help DH as I am huge and knackered.
GPs never go out anywhere apart from part-time work, and spend the rest of their time pootling about at home, watching tv (as most GPs do I guess). So it's not looked upon favourably if I go out with DD.
This leaves me bored out of my brains. I can't put my feet up with a book, as I need to be watching DD. I can take DD out to the local Asda to kill a few hours (woo-hoo!), but this is tiring at this stage of pregnancy, and also is not hugely fun.
ILs are lovely, they do take care of me, but I totally resent having to go down there. It's annoying me no end today. I know I am BU. But I can't kick myself out of the horrendous mood it has put me in. I am just SO annoyed at trekking down there, only to be bored and counting the hours till we leave.
How can I pass the time there? I am a very unreasonable woman .
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to not want to spend the weekend at the in-laws??
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vanimal · 17/06/2009 16:36
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