2 years ago I moved to new area to get married. I kept up with friends ( mainly work colleagues) and saw folk in my old town fairly regularly. I made a couple of new friends in the new job ( again work colleagues) When I got married I invited all the friends from my hometown to the wedding as well ( mainly beacuse I had attended their weddings) but these guys are scattered all over the country and contact really had become a six month get together and the odd phone call. I then moved on to another new job but back in november I got pregnant and have suffered a pretty rotten pregnancy with 3 months off work back in the winter and a couple of spells in hospital. The two local friends visited once but seem busy with their lives. I put updates on facebook about how I'm feeling ( generally up beat)most of the friends I know are on it too. i'm car-less and six months pregant and not feeling great but it occurred to me today as I am off work on holiday for the week ( and so will be many of my friends ) I will see noone all week. People leave message on FB like " Hope you are well, we must get together soon " I leave messages back "just call me " but noone ever does. I haven't seen friends from the old area since november. My chief bridesmaid I saw once arranging to meet last month in my old town when I was feeling up to the train journey. Lots of congratulations but noone ever comes to see me ( it's a 40 minute drive) I know people drift out your lives but it just feels like everyone as done a disappearing act. IABU or just feeling hormonal and sorry for myself
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to think all my old friends have abandoned me or this isjust the way life goes?
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isoldeone · 26/05/2009 14:05
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