Long story short. We have 2 kids - 4 and 19 months. DD who is 19 months gets up most mornings at 6am which is rather antisocial but nothing can stop that at the moment. So to combat fatigue / annoyance - DH and I have been taking it in turns to get up with her in the morning and then wake the other at 6.50am to get ready for work.
I am now longer working and for the time being am a SAHM with the kids going to nursery 2 short days a week.
It was my turn yesterday AM to get up with DD and she surpassed herself at waking at 5am and not going back to sleep.
This morning was DH turn to get up and she woke at 5.55am and the conversation went like this
DH: (stifled sob like noise) Its too early, she cried out in the night and woke me up too, I'm not getting up, you can as I have to go to work this morning.
Me: But its my turn to sleep in and I was up at 5am yesterday
DH: You dont have to go to work like I do and the kids are at nursery so you'll be doing nothing all day anyway
Me: Various swearing and then I say I'll do it this once but I am not doing it again tomorrow when you change your bloody mind on a whim.
So he then gets up at 6.50am and basically gives me evil looks and says that I made him so cross he couldnt get back to sleep properly and that was all my fault. I got really cross and said he was a selfish twat and should say sorry and then all hell broke loose and we both spectactularly lost it and said really horrid things to each other and he has gone to work and now we arent speaking
I kn ow its a boring 'he said / she said' thing to read but he's really annoyed me!
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Boobalina · 19/05/2009 14:05
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