DS was referred to a consultant for what is thankfully a minor matter.
The letter I recieved today confirming this was addressed to "Mr and Mrs X".
I am not and never have been married to DS's father and my name is not "Mrs X" as DS has exP's surname and I have mine.
I found it odd to receive a letter addressed to "Mr and Mrs X" and was surprised that it was from the hospital.
Most letters to do with DS's health care are addressed to "Parent / Gaurdian of DS" which surely should be standard practice? If it were a company rather than the NHS I would be inclined to write and complain as feel it is very old fashioned to assume that a child's parent / guardian are automatically Mr and Mrs. Surely plenty of children do not live in the "perfect" family with mummy and daddy being married to each other and where the mummy has taken daddy's surname?
So AIBU or just over sensitive?
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AIBU?
to expect the consultant not to automatically write to "Mr and Mrs"
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curlygal · 07/05/2009 18:54
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