I recently moved in with DP and his daughter (with my two kids). I tried to keep my presence down to a minimum at first, didn't change anything, didn't put my stuff everywhere ... mostly for his DD's benefit. I didn't want her to feel like we were taking over her house.
However after a few months I was looking around the living room day at the photos ... 2 class photos of his DD (and the entire class) in each alcove. Above them were two portrait pics of his DD.
On the other wall, another class photo of his DD and the class from primary school (she's in secondary now).
On the window ledge - a photo of his DD and the cat. A photo of his DD's last school pic from primary and a school photo of DP!
So I suggested to DP one night that we arrange the photos a bit so I can put a few of my kids up too ... he agreed ... DSD went in a strop.
Anyway, a few weeks after that I asked DP if he minded me re-decorating our bedroom. He told me to go for it so I did. Nothing drastic, just a re-decoration. His DD said it was "better before"
Anyway, the latest row is over the ornaments in the living room. There are cats EVERYWHERE. All over the windowledge, all over the fireplace, on the bookcase ... hideous cheap pot cats. (Imagine the kind of ornaments sold on a jumble sale)
I asked DP if we could get rid of the cats and buy some more modern other ornaments together that we both like. He agreed but his DD is kicking up a fuss saying she likes the cats and will just put them all back if we move them. I feel like smashing the bloody things tbh, they're horrible.
I put up with a lot of shit. Dr Who calenders on the kitchen door for instance, gorey 'owl' clocks, an earthquake chart on the wall ... AIBU for trying to add just a bit of myself to the house??
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To fight my corner regarding the house decoration?
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60sEyeLashes · 26/04/2009 19:24
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