Prob being petty...but...
Basically DP hasn't seen his mates from Uni days for a while, and i didn't have a problem when he said that they'd organised to meet up and go on one of those 'activity days'.
It looked like really good fun and i asked if i could come as i get on well with his friends and since i had ds i don't ever get to do those kind of fun things as i am always looking after him (which i love) while DP does get to do pretty much whatever he wants.
Anyway he said no it was just him and male friends A and B, whom i know and think are great. Fair enough, no probs with that, male bonding and all that.
Just been on Facebook and saw that friend A that i am friends with (but DP doesn't know that i'm friends with on FB) has uploaded pics and there are 2 women with them. I don't know them and have never heard of them, but they are friends with friend A on FB so aren't just people that got put in a group with them.
Now i don't think anything was going on, i'm just hurt that he banned me from this as it was 'boys only' but there are these 2 women i am assuming he doesn't even know. And they look like they're having so much fun. I would have loved to be there.
Thing is i asked him (before i'd seen the pics)when he got back: oh so it was just you and friends A and B then, and he said yep.
AIBU to get upset about being banned from this only for 2 random women to tag along when i really wanted to go, and for being upset that he lied about it. (he has never lied before even when he knows its not what i want to hear.)
I'm confused and need to clarify this in my head, please help!
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MistyGee · 20/04/2009 20:15
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