My dad used to be married to my cousin's wife's mum (for just a few years). My dad and my cousin fell out over something business related some years ago. I have always tried to maintain a distance in family feuds and don't like to get involved and am one of the few who isn't on non-talking terms with anyone. I do get on well with my cousin and his wife and see them when I can.
Although seperated some years ago, the divorce is just going through and my dad just emailed to say that his ex wants a divorce on condition he buy her house for £150k. My dad is absoloutely furious and I know he doesn't have this kind of money - he would have to sell his properties that he rents out which is basically his pension. Even I don't own my own house and on benefits.
My dad has just now emailed me to ask that I stop all contact with my cousin, his wife and her mother. He wrote a very emotional email, obviously raging, I quote "Nobody can hurt me without hurting you. unless you don't have any feelings for me as your father".
I am a bit hurt that anyone would try to take the piss out of my dad, and also everyone knows that I am struggling financially so this is bound to have an effect on me, my dad's properties are the only thing he has to leave behind for his children. I am quite surprised cos my dad's ex always thought the world of me.
Am I being unreasonable to feel that they are being two faced and deceitful? That they are not thinking twice about the consequences this will have on my life?
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whethergirl · 16/04/2009 20:30
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