DH's parents have a lovely static caravan on south coast and is over 6 hours drive from us and we have spent a week with them in their caravan over summer in the past but not for the past couple of years due to getting married and then being heavily pregnant.
DH wanted us to spend 2 weeks with them this summer which i thought was too long for us to be away from home with DS. The caravan is nice but it will get crowded with a 1 year old and 4 adults especially for 2 weeks plus I don't really want to spend a whole 2 weeks with DH's parents in such a small environment. I told him I was happy to do a week but not 2. We get on well but after a few days it gets a bit much.
The other day we were with friends who asked us what we were doing this summer to which DH replied, "we will be having a week at beginning of summer and a week at end of summer at my parents caravan". I never agreed to this plus I really don't want to spend all my summer holidays with his fecking parents. DH thinks that cos they don't live near us we should spend all this time with them. They live 130 miles away from us so don't see us that often but we make an effort and go and stay with them every 6-8 weeks on average, even though they have not been up to see us since DS was a week old. We don't have any room for them to stay here but it isn't too far for them to come for the day or stay in a cheap hotel (they are not minted but they aren't short either)and I just feel like they can't be arsed to come here. They say they really miss him and would love to see him more often which I think makes DH feel guilty. We are always very welcoming and I have told them that they are welcome to come and visit us anytime.
Back to the holiday though, I am concerned that their is nowhere to put DS's travel cot and DH and I have discussed it and he said we are going to PIL's caravan and we will find a way so tough basically. He now thinks that I am making excuses and don't want to go which is not true, I don't mind for a week but not for 2 weeks and defo not for 2 hoildays of a week each. AIBU to think this is too much and he should consult me first? How can I approach this without sounding like I am being a bitch.
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To expect to be consulted about summer holiday! Long sorry
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Wigglesworth · 22/01/2009 11:05
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