1:Taking nap with ds2 in the daytime.
He is 1 and i still bfeed him and end up sleeping with him in morning after school run and then at times in the afternoon before school run.
I ask because it means i dont always get out to toddler group, and when i did today (albiet late) the mums were really shocked i had slept in the daytime..
2:Not wanting breastfeeding referred to as bitty?
Popped into new family centre today to see what it was like and to register. Was lovely and woman was really nice.
Ds2 had a few tears as was nearing lunchtime and he had just been to toddler group and was feeling tired. So i gave him a give feed. Anyway got round to talking about length of time i would feed him for, i said i dont really have a limit. Then i laughed and said although when he goes to uni it might be tricky to which she cooed ooooo bitty. Ok in context i know she wasnt trying to be offensive and i was making a joke but i already got the vibes of eww. (maybe i was still prickley from toddler group and having a grumpy toddler!)
3: To not think i am ruining ds2's chances of ever sleeping alone?
He still sleeps in his cot in our room and still wakes at times in the night, not all nights but frequently enough. Sometimes he ends up in the bed because it is easier and we are all happy. My mother in all her wisdom took it upon herself to tell me that i am completely wrong. We were never in her room and in nursery even in the hospital and that i am making things extremely hard. I said i didnt agree as ds1 sleeps happily in his own room and i think that i am helping ds2 feel happy and secure. I do plan to move him to his room but when it feels right but i am pissed off annoyed by my mothers pearls of wisdom when she is a completely different generation and did things very differently and nothow i would.
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To nap in the daytime with ds2? To not want breastfeeding referred to as bitty? AND To not think i am ruining my childs chances of ever sleeping alone?
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MamaMaiasaura · 21/01/2009 22:42
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