DD has wanted a Wii for ages, so we agreed that we would get her one for her birthday last week after talking to my side and dh's side, and agreeing that we would all club in and buy it as a joint present. So dh goes of and buys it, my parents and my sisster and grandfather all send dh cheques, and his side (aunt, parents sister etc) say they will give us money when we go up on Sunday (yesterday) for a birthday tea.
SO yesterday we go there and there is a big pile of presents on the table. MIL hurries dd to come in and open here presents before we can say anything. Apparently they dscided they wanted to be able to see her open presents so decided unanimously through several pone calls not to contribute but buy their own thing.
I am cross for many reasons, firstly dd was told and understood that by getting the Wii she wouldn't be getting other presents as it is avery pricey item (they all knew this), secondly they didn't bother to discuss it with us before changing their minds, and thirdly it now means we have forked out for most of the present, something we weren't exactly budgeting on!
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To be cross with dh's side of the family for not keeping to an agreement?
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ComeOVeneer · 12/01/2009 13:03
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