I have no problem with dhs family they are all really lovely and very nice but every year we travel up to see them on boxing day. Its a 200 mile round trip and as Dh works in a shop we have to be back for the 27th so can't stay over night. Dh doesn't drive so I have to drive all the way so get to spend the day watching him getting drunk with his family. His father died earlier on in the year (hence the dilema) so the rest of the family are all going to be together for chrsitmas, we can't make it as Dd and I are going to the panto on Christmas eve and to be honest I don't want to drag her and all her presents 200 miles.
I know it is only one day and it is an easy road to drive but I doubt we'll see much of his family anyway as they will be visting their other relatives as they were altogether the day before.
What really puts me off though is it has been over a year since any of them came to vist us and even that was for Dds birthday whewn they only stayed for a couple of hours.
I'm I really horrible saying I don't want to go and I want Dh to stay with us,, his idea was for him to go on his own, and instead we will try to go up at new year instead.
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Champagneforlunch · 11/12/2008 12:28
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