Do you think its rude to not see family on the Christmas Day?
Before getting married, we used to go back to our own parents for xmas, which in hindsight was pretty easy and straightforward.
Now we are married with a 2 yr old, things seem to have gotten more complicated. My MIL has already decided there should be a "taking turns" thing, where I go to hers one yr, and then my parents the other. Both our sets of parents live far (ish) away, so THIS year we would prefer to stay in our home for xmas and not have to do all the travelling.
But!...this would mean mine or his parents spendig xmas day on their own! Which maybe is alittle mean!? I know xmas should all be about family etc...which means we probably will not ever be able to stay at OUR home for future xmases ever!!! :-S
Maybe we shouldn't be so selfish...and think of our parents wishes instead!?
Any suggestions or anyone else in the same situation with tips would be much appreciated!
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To stay at OUR home this Christmas and not travel!
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dottiepeas · 17/11/2008 17:16
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