My house is a tip - I have a dd with severe autism who gets genuine pleasure from chucking things, including food, spilling (nay, pouring ) juice etc on the carpets, even the odd accident when she whips her nappy off. I try to clean up after her, but there is sometimes the faint odour of wee from a spot I don't know where...She currently enjoys stripping off wallpaper too.
On top of this, my "helpful" brother, who works shifts, has started numerous DIY jobs for me, which are all unfinished, including a half-insulated loft, a hole in a wall, bare brick on the kitchen walls after he removed the tongue and groove "to check what was behind it" etc etc We stripped all the paper of DD's room walls nd he promised to re-skim the walls before putting a coat of paint on, but weeks later it still looks like she is sleeping in a Victorian orphanage.
I can't do much when dd is around as she needs close supervision, and by the evening I am knackered, and looking forward to spending some time with my DP (we have separate houses but he sleeps over). DD wakes a lot during the night, so it is not far off having a newborn IYSWIM.
I also admit I am a bit lazy about housework anyway.
Anyway, a social worker is due for a visit soon to review DD's support package (Sat mornings fortnightly she attends a playscheme, that's about it...)The question is, ladies, do I let her see this pit in all its glory so she can see I need some more help, or is this a surefire Black Mark on my character and will I be seen as feckless and an unfit mother? I am not sure of the best course of action, and am hoping it does not involve breaking out the marigolds...
But let me know, I can take it
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BitOfFun · 18/10/2008 15:55
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