to expect not to be wolf whistled at when pregnant?

[GirlWithTheMouseyHair]

I don't mind the normal plain old whistles or comments of "lovely smile" but do take exception to cries of "show us your tits" and men leering obviously out of white van windows (especially when I'm looking hideous, not even made an effort!) but now I'm 7 months pregnant and still getting this kind of attention and frankly it pisses me off - isn't it even more disrespectful to behave this way towards a pregnant woman - above the amount it's disrespectful anyway?!

btw not how I'm dressed - today I'm wearing trainers, jeans a top and a cardi (no cleavage) and still got leered at

grrrr

[Tittybangbang]

Oh stop boasting!

[ShittyCatsLawyer]

ah yes i had that once when i was pregnant

very wedird actuiaally

[zippitippitoes]

thats what i thought

you are clearly stunning a cross you have to bear im afraid

[MadreInglese]

You should go out with a paper bag on your head, that should stop it

[sophiajane]

it is horrible and sleazy....also really unpleasant when it happens when you are pushing your child in a buggy...wtf?

[msdemeanor]

I was whistled at, smiled at and given the odd appreciative comment when I was pregnant first time (and...shhh...I blardly loved it!)
Now I'm a raddled old mum nobody ever notices me...sob.

[MmeLindt]

You are obviously not mousey then.



I got chatted up when I was 8 months pregnant, but I was wearing a big winter coat. DH said I should have went for a coffee with him just to see his face when I took my coat off and unveiled my bump.

[BigGitDad]

I think it is comforting that builders and the like are prepared to wolf whitle at all sorts these days. Maybe it's the credit crunch lowering their expectations somewhat...

[MrsMattie]

I am getting more looks from men now I'm pregnant than i did before. Very strange.

[sophiajane]

perhaps fecundity (is that right word?) gets some men going?

[LadySanders]

i got wolf whistled by builders while doing school run, heavily preg with ds2. i was delighted.

wouldn't like 'show us yer tits' at any time though!

[GirlWithTheMouseyHair]

aw you're all very sweet but i live in a crap south london area and the white van men leer at anything female, under no illusions I am a perfect stunner!

maybe I should change the title - whistles are fine, it's that nasty leering look and literally shouting "show us your tits" or "cum on my face" that I object to....just thought I'd be able to avoid that whilst pregnant!

looks from men generally whilst pregnant I agree is disconcerting but at least it's more curiosity than outright disrepect

[SheikYerbouti]

I got asked out to dinner by the horrible sleazy man who used to own the local greengrocers. I was 7 months gone with DS2. I won't tell you what other requests he made

[TheProvincialLady]

I used to get lots of cars beeping and shouts when I was pg with DS....I used to watch them as they drove past me as the look on their face when they reached the front of me and noticed I was pregnant was hilarious

Whereas this time I am 'showing all round'[porker]

[ShittyCatsLawyer]

sheikh
me nad finbar
bath
autumn
duo boots session( her)
lunch and cofee and maybe a happy hour cocktail

where?

[sophiajane]

Jesus no one has ever said "cum on my face" to me in public (or private in recent years ) where the hell do you live???

[SheikYerbouti]

Firehouse is good for lunch as is the Walrus & Carpenter, Moon and Sixpence and Opa.

Cocktails, not a scooby my darling. I only ever go to old men's pubs

[GirlWithTheMouseyHair]

streatham....i hate white van drivers...builders tend to be a bit nicer (though "cheer up love" rightly pisses me off too!)

[sophiajane]

"give us a smile" always makes me want to machine gun whatever creep asks for it

[traceybath]

nice bar in bath and just round the corner from duo

jamie oliver's new italian place should also be open in september - again just 2 mins from duo so very central

[HonoriaGlossop]

I was wolf whistled when pregnant

Just assumed they were taking the p* to be honest

or perhaps they really did find the puffy red face and varicose veins appealing?

[GirlWithTheMouseyHair]

to be honest i do think they are probably taking the piss too most of the time...either way it's annoying, maybe I'm just being naive thinking pregnancy would prevent this!

[combustiblelemon]

Bleurghh Sheik. I hope you washed your veg thoroughly.

It's not really a preen moment to have 'Cum on my face' shouted at you regardless of the occupancy state of you womb.

[MrsTittleMouse]

A friend of mine was chatted up more when she was pregnant. I suppose that some men find that kind of thing attractive. DH is quite keen on me when I'm up the duff (shame we're not able to do much about it ). Strangers aren't that impressed by pregnant me though - the dark circles alone are enough to put them off.

I have never had anyone ask me to cum on their face, even when I was young and nubile and had impressive norkage.