I am soooo cross with my MIL. She phoned this morning at breakfast time demanding the telephone number of my cleaner. When I asked why, she said that my SIL's cleaner is rubbish, and she wants to ring my cleaner.
I was evasive, and said I didn't have the number, and I was in the middle of breakfast. She extremely persistent to the point of rudeness, and told me I had to go and look for the number and phone her back after breakfast.
The reasons I don't want her to have the number are:
- My SIL despises me, and barely speaks to me.
- If my SIL wants the number, why doesn't she phone me herself.
- My SIL goes through cleaners every couple of months, because she is rude and demanding.
- My cleaner is sweet and conscientious. If she was criticised she would easily be reduced to tears.
- If my SIL is rude to her, she may feel weird about continuing to work for me, and I will lose my cleaner.
- I am pissed off at my MIL's attitude.
My MIL previously called to my house when my cleaner was here (and I was not) and asked her if she would be interested in working for my SIL. My cleaner didn't commit herself, and said she wouldn't be able to do it, because she didn't drive. However, she told me afterwards that really felt she was put on the spot. My MIL is very persistent and I feel that no matter what my cleaner says, she will put up arguments as to why she should work for my SIL. I also know that my cleaner is not looking for any more work at the moment.
I'm scared to ask, but AIBU?