My dds dad was a horrible abusive boyfriend whopretty much made my life hell. shortly after finally leaving him I discovered I was pregnant. He had very little involment in her life and went over a year without seeing her at all. I am now happily married to someone lae who my dd sees as a dad. He is amazing and has provided everything for her and makes us both so happy.
My ex meanwhile has decided to turn his life around and become a better person, this involved taking me to court and getting granted contact.
The way I see it I wish he had just left us alone as this has been so disruptive to our lives and I think he had his chance at being a dad so many times and wasn't interested.
DD has never known him and has had an increadible father figure in my husband.
I know x is trying to the right thing but in this situation I feel the best thing would have been to walk away.
My husband is finding this very hard as he as bought her up as his own and now someone else who tried to make me abort the baby in the first place wants to play daddy.
any ideas or advice would be much appreciatedas this is very difficult for me.
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jessiesmummy · 16/06/2008 21:13
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