Long story cut short, we had to move house as our let was up, the only house we could get in such a short space of time that was big enough and that we could afford is two buses away from DD's school.
We hired a childminder to look after Dd for the hour between DP leaving for work and DD starting school.
A friend of mine has a DD at the same school, and offered to have DD for the hour before school instead, she offered a couple of times and we took her up on her offer. The childminder wasn't too impressed that we were not going to use her anymore and apparently was complaining to the other CM's at the school about it, so we've burned our bridges there.
Friend has informed Dd this morning that she won't be having her anymore, starting the week after half term. In other words, she will only have her for three more days then we need to find alternative arrangements.
So, hardly any notice, and no possibility of getting our childminder back because she told us to cancel her, why bother?
If she hadn't been so insistent I would still be sending DD to the childminders and there would be no issue, now, I'm fucked.
I'm really annoyed, but almost feel like I shouldn't be because she was doing us a favour, but she doesn't go out of her way to do it, she goes to the school anyway and DD isn't a naughty child or anything so it's not that she can't have her anymore, just that she doesn't want to. Well maybe she should have thought about that before offering right?
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VictorianSqualor · 20/05/2008 16:42
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