I'm sure I am being so I expect everyone to disagree with me!
In our family, we send thank you cards to people we don't see often or non family but for close family we never have. I would never send a thank you card to my brother for example, I'd just say thank you and he'd know I meant it and vice versa.
DH's family are obsessive about it, to the point where he'll send a thank you card if my parents take us to the Harvester! So, as you can imagine, when 6 week old dd was born and we were inundated with pressies, he has gone thank you letter mad. All well and good so far.
But his mother is nagging him because he didn't send a thank you letter to his sister (I do my lot, he does his lot as there were so many). We didn't think she'd given anything but it turns out that what we thought was a Christmas present was actually a new baby present but, with no labels we hadn't realised. So his sister is sulking because she hasn't received one and his mother is nagging on the phone as we speak, less than 3 hours after the mess was cleared up, demanding that he write a thank you this minute. He has left a message but this apparently isn't good enough (it wasn't the crown jewels btw...).
This is the point where it gets on my tits. It's almost as if they give things on condition that they receive a nice big thank you, which, to me seems the wrong reason to give. It gets to the point where you're sending a thank you letter for a thank you letter.
DD will be writing letters in due course but not to all and sundry. OK go for it, tell me I'm BU!
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...to be sick of all this thank you letter lark?
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Sarahjct · 25/02/2008 18:58
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