thinks she is always right and is so smug about her rightness that she draws me into a debate, which when I prove Im right she just dismisses it and says "oh well doesn't matter does it."
Im not usually a person that gets into debates about things unless I feel very strongly about something. However, my Mum always tries to suck me in just to boost her own esteem. She'll say something which quite often I don't agree with. Usually I let it wash over but she always tries to draw me in. I today I foolishly said that I didn't agree. She put the smuggest most self righteous face on and then the most patronising, condescending face at my reply. Its taken years of self discipline to learn not to be drawn into these so called "debates" because she turns my stomach and riles something form deep within when she looks at me like I'm stupid. The thing is she has some really warped ideas of the world based on a very shakey evidence so she'll say something like "I think this" and back it up with "because my friend told em this happened to her"- basically making sweeping generalisations based on the evidence of one person, throwing around words like always and everybody. Why is she on a quest for rightness about things that aren't at all important?
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staryeyed · 21/02/2008 17:55
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