My Dh has a mad mum (very clean and tidy) and a mad Auntie. I hope to God they're not on here for any reason but here goes..OK I was pissed off this morning but Auntie has always had hygiene problems. Had a child, now 14, dirty bottles, kinckers on draining board etc. Child got through life and probably only time I've ventured into said house is when "Granny" died. (Who looked after Dh a lot and was like a kind of mum to him and it broke his heart when she dies). I was 10 weeks pregnant and volunteered to do "Do" the funeral food and help with Dh's cousin, then aged three who went to the fun eral. Got in the house, gagged and did the food,. Cat shit, wee everywhere and had to clean the little one up before the funeral service. Auntie is kind, batty. not old and a bit smelly.Fast forward to now.....my Dh and one child went to visit and said child (who expressly is not allowed in the house because I really feel like burning his clothes) has been in there for 20 mins and trod in cat shit. On the carpet. Presents from their family to mine...all stinkling of cat wee, on the paper and even when I unwrapped them, they still stunk. Selection boxes... I went ape and swore a lot. Chucked stuff outside and now DS (9) is telling me he's going to tell Auntie all the things I aid and that he's not allowed the present. I've told him that things said in our house are private and that he will offend said Auntie if he tells her what I said. I would never tell her and would thank her for presents..'cos I'm polite. Same Auntie loves animals which is why all her cats have kittens, and they have kittens, and they have kittens, which is why they all look like rejects from Gremlins and they wonder why neighbours reported them to the SS and she was shocked...need I go on? What do I do with the fing presents? DH thinks I'm over-reacting but OMG tha's just minging pants and there's no need for anyone to live like that. Prime example, when Granny died there was a light flex in the lounge, with encrusted dead flies on it, it's still there 10 years later. Same flex, same flies. No cooking done, Macd@s every night or same such.AIBU..or over reacting?
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stickyj · 29/12/2007 22:15
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