Should be able to make his way home from surrey to london at 5pm?
I have a friend who has done me some favours in the past, with babysitting etc, and in return i let him kip on my sofa on friday nights, most weekends, and often saturdays as well, so he can go to the pub and see his mates (he used to live round here but is now in london).
This is often inconvenient, sometimes to my advantage, if i want to go away overnight for example, but it's somehow crept up to happening every weekend on fridays and saturdays.
Now he isnt really any trouble, it's just i am starting to feel like i would like my house back at weekends, as i have been really down recently and not in the mood for company every weekend,plus sometimes i need to sofa for other people who i DO want to see, because i dont get the chance to as often.
Anyway the weekend just gone i told him he wasnt able to stay, and he didnt make a fuss, but while i was telling him , he asked if he could stay here overnight tomorrow night as he had a works do. I said yes to this, assuming that as he said he needed to stay overnight it was an evening thing. However he just sent me a text telling me it will be over by 5pm, which means he will be here not just overnight but late afternoon and evening too.
I dont understand why he wouldnt be able to leave his van at work and get a train to and from here so he can go home. Is it mean of me?
Obviously now it's too late for me to say no, it will mess his thing up, but i feel a bit annoyed by it all, despite me saying i should just appreciate what he has done for me on and off and reciprocate the favour.
AIBU to feel fed up about this?
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lou33 · 19/12/2007 09:31
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