my ds1 is 9, sparky, imaginative, has a different accent to his classmates,is polite, thoughtful and has plenty of friends like him in P6 who adore playing knights and castles or pokemon. they're all nicely brought up little boys. he has good friends
however he's always had an arch-nemesis 'child A' who is footbally, loud, gets into trouble a lot. i generally tell him to keep away from kid a. they have a volatile relationship. they're a bit chalk and cheese. his mum gives the impression of being just liek child a - a bit loud/brash and I try to avoid her.
recently ds1 has started to tell me that child A is making comments which i would deem to be sexually inappropriate for a 9 year old. I'm quite factual about sex with my kids and try to underline that there is an emotional involvement, there should be a level of maturity before people consider sexual relationships. child a sings songs about shagging, describes fellatio, talks about women 'bouncing up and down' on men etc. i'm kind of worried that something has happened to child a, or they've seen something inappropriate - or he could have just accessed his parents porn stash.
child A bullies a lot of children in P6. he got told off today and told to write a letter of apology to everyone in his year he has bullied. (there are younger children being bullied too) I'm concerned that the reason for the bullying is tied into the sexual inappropriateness - but i don't now if i'm being a bit precious or looking for
excuses.
what do you think? should i go and see the head teacher? or are other nine year old boys shag-obsessed and mine are sheltered?
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AIBU - I'm worried about the boy that bullies my son. what should I do?
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PersephoneSnowballSnape · 18/12/2007 22:14
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