MIL lives 3/4 hours away. She is going on holiday next week, and has asked us to look after her dogs whilst she is away (the fact that she won't look after ours in return is another AIBU matter altogether). The plan was that she would come and drop them off en route to the airport, perhaps staying for a night or two as well.
I asked her last weekend what she was planning on doing and when, and she wouldn't tell me - acted like it was a state secret. A bit annoying as I was trying to arrange for my parents to come and stay, so needed to know her plans (they don't get on at all, so there could be no overlap).
Today SIL tells me that MIL has been trying to see if she can stay with them instead. They have no spare room and have her inlaws aleady coming at the weekend (sleeping on the sofa), so that was out. BIL has offered to let her stay for one night, but has no spare bed or sofa for her to sleep on; he doesn't want her staying for 2 nights because it will interfere with his weekend of fun (no dcs yet). So MIL has told SIL and BIL (but not us) that she will stay here on Saturday night if she has to, and will sleep at BIL's on Sunday, but she won't confirm with us in case BIL decides he will have her for both nights after all. She would still drop her blasted dogs here though on the way to BIL's, because noone else will have them.
I find this so rude, and am rather taken aback that she wouldn't like to spend some time with her grandchild if nothing else. She hasn't seen him since about June (and sees SIL's dcs all the time).
Sorry, long and whingey. Just wanted to rant really....
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AIBU?
To be peeved with MIL for refusing to commit to coming to stay at the weekend in case she gets a better offer from one of her other children?
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MuffinMclay · 25/10/2007 14:13
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