Bit of a tale... I was ill earlier this year and couldn't do the school run. A friend from down the road offered to take DS. It worked.
This academic year she has got a job and needs to leave for work at 8am. I said I'd have her 2 kids and take them to school on the bus (I still can't drive for at least 8 months). So really she couldn't have accepted the job without me. She then brings DS home. It sounded an ideal arrangement.
Thing is her DD is lovely and really well behaved but her DS is incredibly annoying. He'll go in the DS's rooms when they tell him not to, wind DS2 up and today he and DS2 ended up in a fight when DS2 pushed him after being told by the boy that he was a 'girl' and stupid.
I know DS2 shouldn't have retaliated but imagine being in your own house and having to deal with someone misbehaving. DS1 is hating this boy coming too and today the boy was saying things like 'stupid' that DS3 aged 3 then started repeating. Today I ended up screaming like a banshee and said if he is coming to our house he needs to behave by our rules but he just looked at me like I was from another planet!
Sorry this is long but at least I've vented my anger on the keyboard
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To expect the child I look after in the morning as a favour to my friend should behave?
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ptangyangkipperbang · 02/10/2007 09:43
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