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To think straight people can have lady/man crushes

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GrandmaGotRunOverByAReindeer · 24/01/2017 18:55

Is that normal?

I have a little lady crush on a woman at the gym, she's strong and tattood (like i want to be)

Apparently that's a bit weird. Blush

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Beardsareweird · 24/01/2017 18:57

I am straight but have a crush on Sue Perkins.

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Manumission · 24/01/2017 18:58

Who says it's weird?

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Libitina · 24/01/2017 18:59

Hell yeah! I'd consider batting for the other side if Ruby Rose offered.

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GrumpyoldBlonde · 24/01/2017 19:01

It's kind of the point of a crush I think, they can be on people you wouldn't necessarily want to be with in real life. I've had same sex crushes, crushes on long dead celebs, celebs as their younger selves, historical figures , all sorts, up to and including fictional characters.

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Eeeek686 · 24/01/2017 19:01

Nope, not in my opinion! I've definitely "fancied" women in the past - as in, been hugely impressed by their beauty and presence and so felt nervous and shy around them as in with a "regular" blokey crush (I'm female).... If any of them at any time had actually approached me with, ahem, intent (!?) I would've run an absolute mile!! Grin

I think maybe it's kind of like awe, maybe?? Confused

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SootSprite · 24/01/2017 19:04

Gwendoline Christie. Lordy I SO would. Grin

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peri89 · 24/01/2017 19:05

It's definitely a thing! I have a massive crush on Helena Bonham Carter.

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Eeeek686 · 24/01/2017 19:05

Actually, now I read PPs responses I do agree it probably is just a fantasy thing you just wouldn't necessarily eant in real life as I've had similar situation with (for eg much older) guys where I'm headed for the hills when reciprocated... Blush

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MorrisZapp · 24/01/2017 19:06

Aren't we through to the other side with girl crushes though? It's all gone a bit thirty something mummy blogger now.

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whifflesqueak · 24/01/2017 19:10

I have a bit of a crush on my boss.

she's hilarious and feisty and effortlessly chic.

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DJBaggySmalls · 24/01/2017 19:14

No its not weird. Its very common and very normal.

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emwithme · 24/01/2017 19:31

Victoria Coren Mitchell.

Jenna Elfman (actually, it's on Dharma Montgomery).

Victoria Coren Mitchell.

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dovesong · 24/01/2017 19:34

I always feel like sexuality isn't as cut and dry as people think and there are lots of different ways you can fancy people and be drawn to them.

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laurzj82 · 24/01/2017 19:38

Gosh I've had loads of girl crushes I'm not normal though

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