NCd. I'm just so over contraception. I've been using it for 20 years. DH and I have two DC and I am sure that I do not want any more. DH says he is sure too and had always planned on a vasectomy but is (understandably) starting to drag his heels now that it is crunch time. I've looked into my options but I'm bf DS so some aren't suitable. Regardless, I'm fed up of pumping myself full of hormones. I don't want a reminder on my phone each day to take a pill. I don't want an IUD inserted. I don't want the pain or the heavier bleeding. I've shut up shop and I want the world to leave my uterus alone now. But I fancy a shag.
We're currently at a very friendly stalemate in our relationship. We are enjoying all the lovely things that couples can do that don't result in pregnancy but there is no end game.
I don't even know what my AIBU is. I'm not pushing him for the snip. I think in general AIBU just to say "come back when you're no longer spermy coz my body has done enough?"
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to not want to be responsible for our contraception anymore?
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Contraceptionconundrum · 23/01/2017 15:15
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