I'm quite private and I find it difficult talking about my health face-to-face. When I first got ill/physically disabled some years ago, it was obvious and so people knew. Recently, I've been ill and had lots of invasive tests and multiple hospital appointments. I've had a new diagnosis, quite serious, but not life threatening and nothing like cancer. People know I'm "not well" in general but think it's due to the disease that I was diagnosed with a while ago. A handful of people know; a few close family member, one friend and my manager at work. I haven't even told my dad. I just don't feel comfortable sharing. I'm still getting my head around this new diagnosis and what it means for me. I spend a lot of time thinking about it, I don't want to talk about it.
My partner is amazingly supportive and wants me to get support from my friends. If they knew, they'd come over, help with things, come with me to hospital appointments and check in on me regularly. I don't want this though. I rarely let him come to appointments, I just go alone and get on with it. He's worried that I'm being secretive and will get depressed again. AIBU to keep this to myself?
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candycoatedwaterdrops · 21/01/2017 20:04
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