Just spoken to my DM and she said quite excitedly that 'next time we see you have got something for you. It's a gift of a side table/dresser and chair for your spare room.' She said that when her and my Dad stayed over at Xmas they didn't have anywhere to put their clothes in my spare room so have decided to buy me some furniture! It's second hand and pine - I don't like pine!
My first reaction is annoyance. My parents are lovely and I know their hearts are in the right place but if I had wanted to buy some furniture I would have brought it myself!! My DH passed away 3 years ago and I have a 5 year old dd, am not working at the moment but planning to v soon and money is a bit tight but not drastically so. They have been an amazing support to me but starting to feel like my Mum is taking things a step further by choosing furniture for me.
I did say to her would you mind me saying if I don't like it and she said yes, of course please do. But I can't help thinking if I do she will feel a bit crushed but I'm worried if I don't it could give her a green light for getting me other stuff I don't want.
Can't work out if I'm being ungrateful?
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Topsy44 · 21/01/2017 15:49
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