Been dating a lovely man for nearly 6 months , but he remains great friends with his exe , they split two years ago after the relationship had been merely platonic for the second ten years they were together . He hasn't told her about me , they have lots of shared friends , none of whom I have met . He has met my kids and my best friend , we spend a lot of time together , but he's clearly hung up on me getting anywhere near that side of his life and it feels like there are three people in this relationship at times . He won't answer her calls when I'm at his house , he's also said he doubts she'll find anyone else . I have no reason to seriously suspect he's still intimate with her , he's openly affectionate in front of passing neighbours etc .. Hand holding walking up the road and stuff ... But , I think he took her out last night , as friends maybe ... But I'm awake , have been for hours , wondering if he stayed over , feeling a bit mental . Been cheated on a lot in the past .
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oldschooloon · 21/01/2017 05:10
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