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Melania has made a terrible mistake hasn't she?

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LadyGlitterSparklesSeriously · 20/01/2017 09:36

Trump prods reluctant Melania to speak

She doesn't want to be there.

I feel quite sorry for her.

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LadyGlitterSparklesSeriously · 20/01/2017 09:37

That should read terrible mistake!

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NathanBarleyrocks · 20/01/2017 09:38

I'm pretty sure she has quite an easy life apart from the odd outing?! She doesn't have to be married to him.

Cosmicglitterpug · 20/01/2017 09:38

I think her mistake was marrying Trump.

Funclesmuck · 20/01/2017 09:38

I think your right, she's made a terrible! Grin

LadyGlitterSparklesSeriously · 20/01/2017 09:39

I get the ominous feeling that if she wanted to leave, it wouldn't be that simple at all.

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sadie9 · 20/01/2017 09:39

I know. I felt so sorry for her. Either you are going to make a speech which you have prepared, or you are not going to make a speech. You don't kinda decide on the way up. It looks like Melania and Donald hadn't spoken to each other for a month let alone all day. They obviously had not discussed who would speak or not speak.
As sole president, chief exec of his own empire for many years, I doubt the 70yr old Donald is used to offering the stage to his wife. I doubt very much he ever consults her on anything.

YouTheCat · 20/01/2017 09:39

She went into the marriage with her eyes wide open. So boo fucking hoo.

I don't feel sorry for her.

BarbarianMum · 20/01/2017 09:41

She went into the marriage knowing her dh would be made President? She knew a lot more than most of us then.

mambono5 · 20/01/2017 09:44

Give the woman a break, if she was not prepared she spoke very well.

She can be as involved as she wants, and be realistic,she had gone through the campaign already.

When you hear Kate Windsor mumbling a text that she only has to read and had hours to practice, it's mean to attack Melania. I think the UK should keep quiet on that one, we are embarrassing. (yes, I am aware that the Duchess of Cambridge is not the equivalent of the USA First Lady, wife of the elected president).

GinIsIn · 20/01/2017 09:44

She probably hadn't been able to download a previous Michelle Obama speech quickly enough to read it out.... Hmm

Imaystillbedrunk · 20/01/2017 09:45

She looks like a woman trapped.

Pluto30 · 20/01/2017 09:45

Who gives a rats that she doesn't want to speak? English isn't her native language and after criticism she's received in the past, I'm not surprised she's reluctant.

The Trump family bashing threads are getting tiresome.

Elroya1 · 20/01/2017 09:46

I am sure she knew exactly what she was getting into when she married him.

LadyGlitterSparklesSeriously · 20/01/2017 09:47

I'm not attacking her at all. I'm saying that Trump essentially forcing her to speak in front of hundreds of people when she didn't want to was a breathtakingly shit thing to do, and that I feel sorry for her.

She left that stage looking utterly miserable.

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Pluto30 · 20/01/2017 09:49

The whole "it wouldn't be simple to leave" thing is just Hmm though, considering he has ex wives who were seemingly quite able to leave.

It's just assumptions based on your general dislike of Trump.

DearMrDilkington · 20/01/2017 09:50

I agree with you, she looked extremely uncomfortable and it was a very shit thing to do to your wife.

LadyGlitterSparklesSeriously · 20/01/2017 09:50

That he's generally controlling and a bully? That's not really my opinion, it's fact.

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Bluntness100 · 20/01/2017 09:50

She went into the marriage with her eyes wide open. So boo fucking hoo.

YouTheCat · 20/01/2017 09:50

All I meant was, she knew he was a massive twat when she married him. She either married him for his personality (which would make her also a massive twat because he's a vile human being) or she married him for his money.

I still have no sympathy for her.

Pluto30 · 20/01/2017 09:52

That he's generally controlling and a bully? That's not really my opinion, it's fact.

Wasn't aware you knew the ins and outs of his relationships, or his nature in them. Carry on.

LaContessaDiPlump · 20/01/2017 09:52

I feel for her, yes. Regardless of whether or not she anticipated any of this, I don't think her life has been particularly free or easy for the past year. The words 'gilded cage' spring to mind.

I read a BBC article on her hometown and youth, and it was telling that no-one from her hometown had anything negative to say about her, even in coded language; it all came across as genuine praise. I think she is probably a relatively simple sort of person (which is not to say unintelligent, at all) and finds the obfuscation and bluster of her husband somewhat hard to cope with (understandably).

LadyGlitterSparklesSeriously · 20/01/2017 09:52

Just the countless witness statements and lawsuits filed against him then Hmm

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ShebaShimmyShake · 20/01/2017 09:53

A terrible mistake in marrying that hateful windbag. She should pull out. Like Trump's father should have done.

lavenirestanous · 20/01/2017 09:53

Out of her depth (as is he), but no sympathy. The mistake was marrying him in the first place.

squishysquirmy · 20/01/2017 09:54

Pluto I can't see anyone attacking her on this thread?
I too think that pressurising your spouse to speak, when they haven't expected to and haven't prepared anything is a really shitty thing to do. He's one of those guys who when he holds his wife's hand, it doesn't look affectionate or reassuring but more like he's steering her iyswim. I have no criticism of Melania, I don't know enough about her and (unlike Donald) has done/said nothing horrendous as far as I know. I certainly don't envy her life though, lots of money but absolutely no freedom.

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