I've NC as this is potentially identifying though no-one knows we're getting married yet but I know how everyone loves a wedding one.
DP and I would like like to get married in September. His parents live a fair distance away, since we've been together the first time he visited them it would have been too soon for me to meet them. The second time they came here I was on holiday, so at new year I finally got to meet them.
DP had warned that his Mum could be hard work and frankly, he wasn't kidding. Still, I smiled through my gritted teeth throughout our weekend visit.
DP and I have been married before so we had the big wedding(s) back then.
Our local registry office has a very small room that can hold: us, our parents, our children and that's it.
There is one space left over and DP has a single, middle-aged brother who lives with their parents. I liked this brother when I met him but if his brother is invited to fill the one space then that leaves both of my siblings out. Both of my siblings have families of their own, though I think I could swing them coming to the ceremonies without their spouses, it wouldn't be fair to invite DP's brother to the ceremony without inviting my own siblings.
I say 'if there isn't space for all siblings then we invite none'.
DP agrees with this but says that if we don't invite his DB then his Mum will be very vocally unhappy about this, even if she knows the circumstances and MiL, FiL and BiL probably won't come to our wedding at all.
AWBU not to invite DBiL?
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A wedding one, get your teeth into this, WWYD?
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howaboutthisonethen · 15/01/2017 17:42
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