Every little problem a child has with MIL, school, teacher, friend has to he sorted out by parents it seems. Parents need to wade in to solve the issue. Every problem needs a resolution.
I'm sure when I was young (cliche ??) we were just left to sort stuff out ourselves. Now obviously there were some draw backs to this, bullying, child abuse, being forced to have showers at school.......
But has the pendulum swung too far? Would a little bit of benign neglect do kids the world of good? They might have to solve their own problems. Sometimes everything isn't sorted out in life, you don't get invited to every one of life's metaphorical parties. If you did something wrong and you were told off by a relative/teacher/ stranger and you got upset, so what? Behave.
Not sure I agree with myself totally, but the urge to rush in all guns blazing, all the time can't be good. Just have a polite word with the teacher or just don't?
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Namechangebitch · 11/12/2016 12:08
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