My husband phoned me earlier today after he'd picked DS up from nursery (he's aged 2yr 10m) to says he'd been bitten twice whilst there.
When I came home from work I saw one bite on DS's thumb, which was really red and there was a bruise underneath the nail, and the second bite had left a full on circular mark of the child's mouth on his left arm with some marking that were indentations from the teeth.
The child who did both bites was just under two years old.
My husband was furious about it.
I on the other hand said some young toddlers just go through a biting phase and that's not to say it is acceptable but at the same time it's just something that happened and nobody is culpable I.e it isn't the Nursery's fault.
I said it could just have easily been our son who hurt another child and reminded him that it was only 6/7 months ago that DS's previous childminder had to tell us that he was frequently pushing other children and causing them to fall over and hurt themselves. My DH said, "True, but biting is different."
My DH has said he wants to remove DS from the nursery.
I was upset when I saw the bite marks because I obviously don't like to think of my DS being hurt but I don't think this one off incident justifies pulling DS out of the nursery.
I said to DH that even if we did change Nursery there's no guarantee that DS wouldn't receive a similar injury, or another type of injury inflicted by or caused by another young child.
My husband seems to think I'm not taking it seriously enough whereas I am currently of the thinking that it's unfortunate it happened but as a one off event it's not enough to change childcare setting.
So who is BU?
What would you do?
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Writerwannabe83 · 08/12/2016 22:36
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