I am very willing to be told IABU. DH has just made me feel like a right selfish bitch.
Due to visit inlaws today. DH close family member is terminally ill and this is the main reason for the visit.
I asked DH this morning (when bringing the kids down at 5am so he could lie in!) if he would mind me not coming (and he take the DC's) as I cannot really be bothered with the long drive (4+hr round trip) and would really love some me time when I have the opportunity of an empty house for once.
The last time I had some time to myself to just relax in my own home I cannot remember. I regularly take both kids out with me and he get to do as he pleases.
He got upset and said that his day has now been made twice as difficult because of my decision and that he thought his wife would want to support him. Then he cried a bit.
He was also upset that not everything was just ready for him to get up and dressed and go after his lie in this morning (he had to put the nappy bag together whilst I dressed both kids 😕)
So am I being an unsupportive bitch wife?
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About not visiting the inlaws today?
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Cuttingthecheese · 07/12/2016 09:21
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