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that I am the last one to be told (Work related)

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cjt110 · 06/12/2016 15:02

We are a small business split into 3 departments. I am classed as being in one department and do the adminstration for the company. In fact my title says "Department X" Administrator.

In my department there are ordinarily me, plus 4 others including our GM. A few weeks back, colleague G handed his notice in. Colleague R (telesales) is informed of this by our GM. I find out from R. R also informs me that G may leave our employment but become a self employed "employee" so may not be leaving in the true sense of the word. Nothing more is mentioned. Last week our GM comes back from holiday, asking if G has handed his phone and laptop back in. I take from this that G has left, but also wonder if he is going self employed as this also required return of company property. I am still none the wiser and have not been officially informed.

Last week I was speaking with a different departmental manager about G leaving (that I am not sure whether he HAS left or not) and he mentions that N has also handed his notice in. He did not realise I did not know about this. I keep this knowledge to myself as it is not mine to discuss. Colleague R is off Tues-Thurs last week ill. On his return on Friday he says "So I guess it's out in the open that N is leaving is C (another colleague not in this department) was talking about it" R tells me that our GM pulled him (R) into the office on the Monday and told him that N was leaving.

Just speaking with a different colleague downstairs who tells me their team was informed in their team meeting on Tues and I was then informed by my manager on Tuesday.

I am quite annoyed at seemingly being the last person to be told. My role involves allocating leads to salespeople. Apparently R was told not to allocate any leads to N as he was leaving. I was sat at my desk less than 10 paces away from GM's office when R was told by GM. Infact, in the interim, I have passed leads to N as I was not informed!

I feel that I am essentially not part of any team, despite being told I am and treated like I am part of the sales team when it suits. I have never been invited into a sales meeting by them, although I am expected to know what is going on by telepathy I have just raised this with my manager who said he cannot understand why R was told but not me as that aspect (sales allocations) is part of my job. He said he will speak to the GM about if for me if I would like (I would) and that he suspects my GM will say he forgot/didnt think which IMO is a bullshit excuse. GM doesnt like the fact I am outspoken over things when needed and R is his favourite pet. R was not that long ago remonstrated by my manager for bullying which the GM just said was unintended banter....Basically, R makes the company money so he could do anything and it wouldnt matter....

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Gazelda · 06/12/2016 15:08

Regardless of when anyone else was told, you should have been told as soon as it wa official news, to avoid you giving sales leads to someone who is leaving the company! Surely that's just business sense?
However I think you should avoid referring to R when raising this issue - it might come across as you being narked that he is GM's pet.

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Castleheights · 06/12/2016 15:10

Well that's quite complicated , I think Yabu a bit. They don't owe you an explanation but it is crap to feel uninformed

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cjt110 · 06/12/2016 15:18

If it was one of the other departments then fair enough, but this is something that affects/effects (cant remember which one!) my job directly and to find out someone on a department who has nothing to do with the people leaving already know... Its quite shitty

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cjt110 · 06/12/2016 15:20

Gazelda You would think so!

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ChicRock · 06/12/2016 15:21

Wow, what a gossipy, he said, she said, unprofessional place you work in!

And you are the administrator who is "outspoken over things when needed".Confused

You all need to work on your professional boundaries and understand your own roles.

I would look for another job too if I were you.

But anyway, YABU.

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cjt110 · 06/12/2016 15:23

What is unreasonable ChicRock when you are not informed of something that is part of your role? Yet other colleagues whom it has nothing to do with are told?

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ChicRock · 06/12/2016 15:26

R was told that N was leaving on Monday.

You and the other team were told on Tuesday.

I'm missing the problem?

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cjt110 · 06/12/2016 15:34

Chic Why tell one member of the team, then not tell the other at all? Tell a different team all together than get someone else to tell R's colleague from the same team?

Its bollocks. Peacemeal drip feeding

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cjt110 · 06/12/2016 15:46

Bah! Just ignore me. I'm getting wound up over something that in the grand scheme, doesnt matter a jot.

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ChicRock · 06/12/2016 15:46

Like I say, I'm missing the problem.

You seem overly angry and over invested in this.

You found out the following day after R. You are not employed at the same level as R. Perhaps he needed to know before you did.

The general manager didn't tell you for a reason. Perhaps because by your own admittance you're outspoken. Maybe you speak out of turn a lot. Or maybe it was genuinely an oversight.

You found out 24 hours after R.

The company didn't collapse and go under through your lack of knowing for that 24 hours.

I hope they're paying you mega bucks because I'd have to be earning a fortune to be arsed and get this wound up about something so minor.

Are you happy there generally? It doesn't seem so. If I remember rightly another thread(s) of yours, you seem to have lots of interpersonal difficulties with several colleagues.

It honestly might be worth looking for something else.

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DixieWishbone · 06/12/2016 15:47

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cjt110 · 06/12/2016 15:49

Chic I am suffering a lot with various things right now. Mainly due to depression which can manifest itself in obsession over silly things and aggression.

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ChicRock · 06/12/2016 16:11

Ah I'm sorry Flowers.

Your workplace doesn't sound like a great environment to be in, in general, it really can't be helping you get well or stay well. I've always found anything to do with direct sales/telesales quite stressful, it's just not suited to some people - well certainly not for me anyway!

Are you having some time off over Christmas?

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cjt110 · 06/12/2016 16:25

Chic We have a week's break over Christmas which can't come soon enough.

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redexpat · 06/12/2016 17:35

I absolutely get why you feel excluded, but i get the impression that a lot of this is information that isnt official and therefore you cant be told iyswim.

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