My dad lives in Thailand. Long story, but we fell out over it initially (think sleezy Westerners thinking it's brilliant sitting with their young Thai 'girlfriends') and now he lives there as he also had major financial issues in the UK. Basically he ran away. He has run away from things before, he has form for it.
His mother who he hasn't seen for nearly 10 years is terminally ill, and probably in her last few weeks. I and his brother and partner are all trying to get hold of him to get him to come back. The only way of contact anyone has is via email. The same email he was using to occasionally email his mother, so it's not like he's stopped using it.
So far, despite being told the full situation several times, and over the course of a week, and how he needs to get here asap, he has not responded.
He is awful with anything medical, he will faint or say or do something stupid and inappropriate as he cannot cope. He also has a long list of people who would not be happy with him if they saw him, as he owes most of them money.
I don't care. This is his mother, and his mother is dying. I think he is an absolute twat and this is, along with the multiple other things, the final straw.
I am so fucking angry!!
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PaulDacresButtPlug · 29/11/2016 09:26
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