A group of us goes away once a year, old uni friends. We are all in our forties now, we always rent a cottage, stay in on one of the nights, drink wine, make dinner, get a bit drunk and dance. We always like taking photos when we are having dinner, out walking, group shots a few selfies etc. All fine. I don't like having my photo taken, I am very overweight and am self-conscious. I can just about tolerate it with some warning. You can see where this is going....
One of the group shot a few videos while we were dancing, being drunk and silly. She has now posted them to our Whatsapp group and several of them feature me, actually focus almost entirely on me and I'm really upset and humiliated. I thought I could dance freely, forget how massive I am and enjoy myself. I look so huge and clumsy and feel so stupid now while at the time it was fun in the cold light of day when you see yourself like that it is awful. I have deleted them but obviously everyone else has them. I want to do tell my friend that I am upset and don't want her to do that again. AIBU? I know it is my issue not hers but it just feels so......sneaky or something.
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A bit pissed off with a friend, AIBU?
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MintyChops · 28/11/2016 20:07
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