I went to visit my friend I met recently. She lives in a beautiful coastal area and also has a house where I live.
I stayed with her for three days and she took me on a few vists to her favourite place.
I asked her if she could take me to a bridge which is quite famous actually and I wanted to look out of the view so she agree. We walked across it and went along a coastal path and stood on the rocks underneath.
I took out a picnic and we sat and looked at the view. I really enjoyed it eventhough it was a little cold!
When I got back to my
House I told our mutual friend about our trips and she's went as white a son a sheet.
It turns out the friend I visited had witnessed her brothers suicide from that bridge and his body was found on the rocks where we were sat having our picnic. It was 11 years ago now but was extremely
Traumatic for her as she witnessed the whole thing and saw his body on the rocks.
She obviously doesn't want to say anything and that's understandable so maybe I shouldn't?
I spent the whole time saying how beautiful the bridge is, the gorgeous views, how amazing a spot we had for our picnic.
I am feeling absolutely terrible and worse.
She knows I do not
Know about the death, she has never mentioned it to me.
My other friend says she regrets saying anything now and it's best I leave it.
I just hate the idea of making her feel bad and uncomfortable.
Would I be unreasonable to say nothing?
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This is just Awful. Should I apologise?
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Runie1989 · 23/11/2016 18:44
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