Backstory: ExH and I are in court proceedings ever since when I got together with DP he stopped all contact between me and DS for quite many months and refused any mediation efforts.
Since then, things have gotten better with regards to contact between DS and I, although ExH is clearly reluctant to agree to anything more than the current rather restrictive situation, and it won't be enough in the long run. Especially as DS get shipped off to ExH's parents a lot of the time because of ExH's work. It's quite upsetting as I may not be able to see DS at all during Christmas, for example, unless ExH uncharacteristically agrees, because Christmas celebrations fall on days that are not in the current contact order agreed to by consent.
However, a week ago it transpired that my DUncle has been sending money to ExH for the past 6 months. Officially, the money is for DS. But, here's the thing. The account is solely managed by ExH (and he is known for his drug habits of cannabis and a class A drug).
In other news, the legal fees my DPs have paid for me so far have totalled £29 000 and I have now had to let go of legal representation.
AIBU for being angry at DU going behind my back, sending money to ExH and not telling me this either? (I heard from DM.)
FYI ExH is certainly not struggling with money.
I've been homeless and then again at the brink of homelessness, suffering a long list of misfortunes in the hands of ExH (turning mutual friends against me by offering them his professional services worth £1000s for free), and granted, my DUncle once lent me £400 when I really needed it during this time period (which I still owe him), but...
AIBU for being angry that these 'gifts' weren't even discussed with me? I mean, will DS ever see that money? I don't understand.
The heating's off today so I thought what's the worst that can happen at AIBU, getting a roasty flaming might warm me up nicely today! got chestnuts ready at hand
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To be upset with DUncle giving money to ExH?
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user1475501383 · 23/11/2016 18:02
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