I'm getting married soon. My family are paying the lion's share, myself and DP are paying quite a bit and MIL has given us a small but generous amount as she doesn't have a lot so it's very kind. We didn't expect anything and are very grateful for this.
MIL and DP did "their side" of guest list together ages ago. Both sides of the family have an equal number of guests. MIL has invited a handful of her friends (not ours but DP knows them I haven't met some of them) and they were on the original list. That's fine my parents are doing the same.
MIL now keeps mentioning extra people she would like us to invite to the evening. It's he evening so not as costly but it still costs some money and I don't know these people at all, DP vaguely knows them but wouldn't ever think of inviting them.
MIL is very good to us but I want to draw the line and not have people at my wedding I have never set eyes on before. A few is fine but I'd like to limit it. I don't want to upset MIL and feel because she's contributed to the cost I'm not in a position to say no.
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MIL has given some money towards the wedding. Can she invite guests?
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Dingarees · 22/11/2016 22:25
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NavyandWhite ·
23/11/2016 09:28
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