I am a member of a health group on FB. The group is for a physical condition that is benign in 99% of people but tends to cause anxiety.
I am thinking about reporting one member to social services, and feel vindictive, I will try to explain. Said member has a teenage daughter and:
- Admits that she spends all her time in her bedroom, to the extent of having a bucket in it to go to the loo as she is scared to move incase condition x begins.
- Only leaves to take daughter to/from school, and doesn't interact with her outside of these times.
- Makes offers to pay people from the group to spend time with her.
- Keeps repeatedly having numerous tests despite all of them coming back benign.
- Medical professionals have offered to refer her to a psychiatrist, but she won't, as apparently, they have "missed" something.
- Doesn't wash, clean, or do anything household related.
I have genuine concern for her, and her daughter. I do not like taking on-line things off-line, but I've never seen anyone worried by this condition to this extent. Meanwhile, I've been told off for posting that her consultant was right, and people, quite frankly, are indulging her out of control hypochondria.
Can one help someone like this? I don't understand why the group would continue to encourage her to post the same thing over and over (as she has for a year) but discourage her from seeking actual help. I seem to be living in a parallel universe.
Would I be being vindictive? From my perspective, I see a child being neglected owing to major mental health issues which can be improved to some degree.